The Three R’s Of Life Are No Longer Reading, Writing, and ArithmeticAngela Banker
Often times I find inspiration from the sermons at church.Â The moment I start to actively listen is that moment Iâ€™m supposed to hear the message.Â This moment didnâ€™t happen on Sunday this week; however, the day before it hit hard.
While itâ€™s been a difficult week for my extended family with the death of two men, both in their twenties, I had the honor of attending one of those celebrations of life this Saturday.Â A day trip out of town to support those closest to the one lost proved to supply one of those moments of inspiration and deep thinking.
The sermon during the service talked about the â€śThree Râ€™sâ€ť.Â Typically when we hear about those it refers to the academics: reading, writing, and arithmetic.Â This time, though, it meant to Remember, Review, and Refocus.Â When we are faced with death, these Three Râ€™s will help to not only deal with a death, but also to help us live our lives.
Remember â€“ We need to remember the memories of the one we loved â€“ the good, the bad, and the ugly.Â Even death cannot take away those memories, many of which we cherish.Â Remembering those memories and the person we lost too soon can help ease the pain of their death.
Review â€“ Experiencing a death of a loved one will often teach us to review our own life.Â We need to review our own life.Â With questions like, â€śWhat are our priorities?â€ť and, â€śAre we living the life we want to?â€ť we will begin to see what is important to us.Â Maybe we lost track of the path we were meant to live.Â Maybe what you want is within reach, you just had a couple detours.
Refocus â€“ After reviewing our own life, we need to learn to refocus.Â Many times we realize the plans we had are no longer the plans we want to continue with.Â Things simply do not seem as important as they once were.Â We begin to change our own lives for what truly matters.Â Refocusing our lives doesnâ€™t hurt us, it is meant to make them better.
I drove away from that memorial service with some deep thoughts.Â I thought about my life and how Iâ€™m living it.Â I had to ask what is truly important to me.Â It was simple to answer.Â Itâ€™s family â€“ always has been, always will be.Â At times, I get lost along the way.Â Other smaller things become more important, and the emphasis needs to be put back to where it belongs.
I want you to walk away from this post with the new Three Râ€™s.Â You may not have lost a loved one recently, but you can still apply this to your life.Â Remember the memories you cherish.Â Review your own life.Â Refocus your direction.Â Just make sure youâ€™re living life to the fullest.Â It truly is a gift.
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